How do I Change? Part 2

How do we change without addressing the filters and lenses with which we view the world and ourselves? if we view the actions and behaviours we exhibit through a logical or masculine frame, does that mean we are missing the value of a more emotional and feminine perspective? Wouldn't the opposite be true too?
The value of feminine and masculine, order and chaos, right and wrong, can sometimes be a limitation of creating change if we cant see ourselves and our reality in at least a slightly different light.